Are you a happy camper?
Date: Weds, 3 August 2005
I had planned on writing about how to break folks’ hips with Chinese combat throws, but I sent a letter off to my son at camp Monday morning, and realized that what I really want to talk about this issue is attitude, and how to have a good one.
That’s something I’ve been learning from my children day by day, and I’ll leave it up to you to figure out the rest.
Here’s the letter:
Dear Austin,
I’m writing this to you from my office just after dropping you off Monday morning, but by the time you receive it I’m sure you will be well into the fun and excitement of Camp.
I bet by now you’ve already caught some crayfish and newts, played cards with other kids after lights out, had some great meals, used your hi-intensity flashlight traveling at night, hiked, swam, and lots of other stuff.
As I mentioned to you in the car, your summer is ending a lot better than it began, now that your cast is off. You’re ten years old and during the next month you’re going to camp in the Virginia woods, visit the big city in Hokkaido, Japan, return to Virginia (and possibly do one or two other things?).
That’s a lot.
This may be one of the best summers of your life. I hope every summer is fun for you, but something tells me this one is special. Maybe it’s because of all the things you’re doing, and maybe it’s because you’re ten. Probably both.
Either way, I know you’ll enjoy it thoroughly and I’m happy for you. Some kids – and adults - could do exactly the things you’re doing and figure out a way to be miserable. Attitude is everything, and yours is terrific.
Keep having fun. Stay safe.
Love,
Dad
I signed this with all 3 of my Chinese “chops.” These are Chinese character block print signature markers you get as Christmas presents due to owning a kung fu school, holding advanced rank/enlightenment, being the Grand Wazoo, etc.
I only use them on important occasions, and when I do I’m extremely mindful of the ceremony and responsibility I’ve been entrusted with. Like not using them upside down.
Anyway, the point of all this is . . . it’s summer.
Be a kid.
Next time, more hard-core training on throws.
Stay safe. Wear sun screen and mosquito repellant. And a life jacket. And a hat. And gloves. Stay hydrated . . .

Rob LaPointe